People with BPD are good and compassionate, and they can have healthy relationships. It takes work, and lifelong challenges will remain. Therapists and doctors can work with you or your partner to develop a treatment plan.

How do you end a relationship with someone who has borderline personality disorder?

Finding Relief if Youre Facing Relationship Problems Due to Borderline Personality DisorderSeek out information. Get help. Practice healthy communication. Ask open-ended questions. Talk only when your partner is calm. Offer support. Avoid labeling or blaming. Take threats seriously.More items •15 Oct 2018

Does BPD affect relationships?

People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) tend to have major difficulties with relationships, especially with those closest to them. Their wild mood swings, angry outbursts, chronic abandonment fears, and impulsive and irrational behaviors can leave loved ones feeling helpless, abused, and off balance.