People who get genital herpes can and do lead perfectly normal lives. A primary infection can be severe and involve generalised flu-like symptoms. This, combined with the pain and discomfort of the sores and, in some cases, secondary infection, can leave people feeling very run-down.

Is it difficult living with herpes?

Living with herpes isnt always easy, but its not as awful as many people expect. Know that you wont always be uncomfortable or in pain, and you can still date, fall in love, and have sex. Herpes is a disease and like many others, you can learn to live well with it.

What does living with herpes feel like?

The first outbreak is usually the worst. At first, you might develop some flu-like symptoms. Then you might feel itchy or have an uncomfortable feeling around your genitals or mouth before the lesions appear. Future outbreaks are likely to be milder and resolve faster.

Is herpes something you have for life?

Can herpes be cured? There is no cure for herpes. However, there are medicines that can prevent or shorten outbreaks. One of these anti-herpes medicines can be taken daily, and makes it less likely that you will pass the infection on to your sex partner(s).

Does herpes affect your brain?

Both HSV type 1 — associated with cold sores and fever blisters around your mouth — and HSV type 2 — associated with genital herpes — can cause encephalitis. Encephalitis caused by HSV type 1 is rare but can result in significant brain damage or death. Other herpes viruses.