Try just gently touching your tongue to your partners at first. Imagine that your tongues are softly caressing each other, says Marin. Dont jab at your partner like a “darting snake tongue,” as Levine seconds, and try not to put too much of your tongue into their mouth. Just gentle caresses.

What do u do with your tongue when your kissing?

Run your tongue along their lips or slide your tongue along theirs. Take it slowly and gently, allowing the intensity to build as you match your partners energy and movements. If your partner likes hugging during kisses, use your hands to hold them close.