First and foremost, make sure the time is right, says relationship expert, Rachel DeAlto. “You need to wait until theres been some time and effort introduced,” she explains. Relationship and etiquette expert April Masini says this conversation should happen within three to six months of dating.

When should you have the exclusive talk?

Talking about exclusivity can also let you know early on whether someone does want the same thing as you or not. Chlipala recommends waiting at least a couple months. ​It doesnt have to be exact, but I recommend dating someone for two to three months before you think about exclusivity, she says.