One of the biggest reasons why first dates get so awkward is anxiety. According to Ella, theres so much pressure to perform. So in order to ease that anxiety, just take a deep breath. Relax. Silences are fine, he says.

How do I stop going awkward on a date?

6 Ways to be Less Awkward on a First DateRemind yourself that it is just a first date. Plan an activity date. Talk about topics you are passionate about. Listen with curiosity. Avoid potentially awkward topics and remember your date is still a stranger. Pump yourself up and remember to relax.Jun 8, 2018

Why do I struggle with finding love?

Yet another reason we often find ourselves struggling to fall in love or maintain it is our tendency to seek the unavailable. Sometimes, this is a form of self-sabotage. Were so scared of love, or so low on ourselves, that we pursue people we know will never really open up to us, or create anything real.