Why do I get anxiety on dating apps?

Time spent swiping is one of the biggest predictors of anxiety linked to dating apps. Thats because the gamification model many apps use are designed to keep you on the dating platform longer, rather than to get you off of them and into whatever IRL relationship youre looking for.

How do I stop being scared to date?

Combining ACT with traditional exposure and cognitive techniques rooted in CBT, here are some of the most effective ways to approach dating anxiety:Practicing self-disclosures. Reducing the threat of judgment from others–and yourself. Acceptance. Reframing catastrophic cognitions. Mindfulness and emotional intelligence.More items •Sep 12, 2014