I wait 3 weeks and text him calmly saying hi and how r u? But rarely have I seen it or known it to happen. He said he loved me but left. So I informed the day before my move that I was actually moving. The next morning we talked on the phone and he kept saying things like well do you think I wanna lose you and some anger fraustration and hurt sound in his voice odd for a nars I guess maybe he has a similar disorder but from stories I am convinced hes a narc. He still has feelings toward you.
However he always posted a picture of them on Instagram. After that I cut off the contact. Long story short, we dated for six months, I called it quits because of my hunch that he just was not that into girls though he did get married and has a kid, but a lot of gay men marry women and I loved him more than one can imagine, but after we stopped datiing, we never spoke again because he was not able to be the boyfriend that I needed and wanted. Every minute you spend with Mr. I know this because I had to block you, lp.
Since you haven't moved on from the breakup, it's not emotionally healthy for you to be friends with this guy, even if he were the best friend in the world. Getting a reaction out of you is like a drug to him. He also talked about how he thought I was so wonderful and I should go and grow for myself and all that kind of talk. I asked him why he got in a relationship so fast. You picked it up and it was a message from your ex! A few days after the breakup, he called me and we had a conversation over the phone.
I told him that, he agreed and wished me well. If you want your ex back, now's the time to seize control over the situation by breaking that contact. If they ex broke up with you because they decided to pursue another relationship, I would suggest not picking up the phone. At any rate, your intentions are clear. This guy has to camp out at the end of your driveway with tears rolling down before you will even think about seeing him again. However, this, of course, can get messy and stir up a lot of emotion from the past. I need your help on this guys.
Its your decision if this works for you. If so, then these are good signs of his intentions. For somone i loved so much, and had a hard time getting over, i do think with strength a worthwhile lifelong friendship can be formed. He just moved to Taiwan, and I'm in New York. This can give him the impression that you are busy with your own life and you are not just waiting by the phone for him to contact you.
I felt his vubrability and wanted so much to believe him. This guy is calling you for his own needs, and obviously is not interested in meeting your needs as far as a love or dating relationship is concerned. I just recently sent him a quick email about something funny on a trip we went on last winter, and his response was kind of short. Angel Best advice I ever came accross. The narcissist always prefers the path of least resistance reverting to old sources.
The fact that he contacted you must have softened the blow. When your ex's claims about having a new girlfriend or boyfriend are repudiated by common friends, you can be certain that he or she is still not over you. Let him get his fix somewhere else. A few months later he texted me again. You deserve the best and better than what you are experiencing with this person. Long enough, in theory, for emotional stability to have allowed you both to have shelved the past and moved on. Which would explain why when he was talking to her, he didn't want to to be with you.
Remember that you have the power here. You might have still feelings but are they the rest of the feelings you had or is there still a fire burning inside for the other person? Later that day I text him saying maybe ur right…can we talk tonight? Does our reader's ex have a case of dumper's remorse, or is he just messing with her head? I distant myself from him allowing him to see the children wen he wants then he txt to say he wanted to take us out as a family. We still talk, my first ex is really smart in the way she has done things and i will be really glad to see her get married one day — we havnt seen each other in years, but communication has been at around the 6 month mark throughout my previous relationship. When I moved in he started acting different he would go through my phone and see who I was talking to and message them from his own fb to tell them to leave me alone yes these were guy friends who I knew for years. He still wants the opportunity to touch you from time to time without feeling guilty about it. It's the same as anything else, you don't want to encourage the bad behavior.