Its perfectly fine if youre only going to date people who you have the potential to marry, people who are serious about settling down soon, people who arent going to screw around with your heart. But make sure that you dont put too much emphasis on marriage.

Should you be with someone you are not attracted to?

Intellectual happens quickly, emotional takes time to see in full, and physical can be instant or arrive dead last. Ultimately, its best not to commit to a relationship with someone until you feel attracted to the person completely. That said, its totally OK to date and see if connection and physical chemistry grow.