Borderline personal disorder (BPD) relationships are often chaotic, intense, and conflict-laden. This can be especially true for romantic BPD relationships. If you are considering starting a relationship with someone with BPD, or are in one now, you need to educate yourself about the disorder and what to expect.

What is a relationship with a borderline like?

A romantic relationship with someone with BPD can be, in a word, stormy. Its not uncommon to experience a great deal of turmoil and dysfunction. However, people with BPD can be exceptionally caring, compassionate, and affectionate. In fact, some people find this level of devotion from a partner pleasant.

How do I know if my partner is borderline?

Signs and SymptomsIntense fear of rejection, separation, or abandonment.Rapid changes between thinking someone is perfect to believing they are evil.Risky behaviors including unsafe sex, gambling, drug use, or accumulating credit card debt.Threats of suicide or self-harm.Difficulty empathizing with other people.More items •24 Nov 2020