How do I not come off as a nice guy?

2:1312:00How To Stop Being The Nice Guy! 5 Tips To Use NOW! - YouTubeYouTubeStart of suggested clipEnd of suggested clipTell her that you want to take it out take her out to dinner. Dont just text her and say hey do youMoreTell her that you want to take it out take her out to dinner. Dont just text her and say hey do you want to grab a bite to eat. No. Because youre not claiming. Anything.

Why do nice guys finish last?

The nice guys finish last view is that there is a discrepancy between womens stated preferences and their actual choices in men. In other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are jerks or bad boys in the end.