There can be many motives for divorce. Issues in a marriage that may arise include infidelity, disagreements over finances, lack of communication, unresolved conflict, unrealistic expectations, or lack of intimacy. Falling out of love is a common reason for divorce.

Should you divorce someone you love?

LOVE RULE: During a divorce, take love out of the equation. Be honest with your ex or soon to be ex about the real whys this relationship is no longer working, which have nothing to do with love or anyone else. Its okay to love each other and still choose to end your relationship, in fact its the best way.