If there are signs youre thought of as a fling and not serious-commitment potential, it should be addressed early on before either person gets hurt. Of course, theres nothing wrong with having a fling, if both people are on board, but one-sided feelings are never a good thing, moving forward.

How do you know a fling is serious?

7 Signs Your Current Fling Is Getting SeriousYoure spending more time together. Theyre asking for your opinion. Body language is changing. Youre getting new kinds of compliments. Youre being introduced differently to their friends. Your texting relationship is starting to shift.More items •30 Jan 2019

Are we just a fling?

While being spontaneous can be great for a relationship, if youre unable to make actual, solid plans with your S.O., it could mean youre seen as a fling, or a plan B. “If the person you are seeing never wants to make proper plans with you, but only wants to text/talk/message/see you at random, spontaneous times (ex.