Give Yourself Time to Know Your Partner Through the Good Times and the Bad. As a baseline, Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT, licensed psychotherapist, couples therapist and author of She Comes First, suggests that one to two years is often a good amount of time to date before getting engaged.

How long do older couples date before getting engaged?

According to recent data, most couples date for two or more years before getting engaged, with many dating anywhere from two to five years. Once the question is popped, the average length of engagement is between 12 and 18 months.

How long should you know someone before getting engaged?

“Its best to wait until at least 3-6 months to see if the feelings you have are for real or just a fading spark of lust. You need to have emotional and rational feelings towards one another.” However, award-winning relationship expert Sarah Louise Ryan said that its never too soon.

Is 6 months a big deal?

Six months marks a significant milestone for many people — especially college/university students who have been together for more than one semester.” “The six-month mark is a big deal because it means youve shifted into a new phase,” says dating coach Connell Barrett.