You may want to express your hurt and sense of betrayal and tell them what a terrible human being they are. You may want to scare them by threatening to tell their spouse about the affair. Please, stop calling my spouse! Know this: the other woman or man cannot be trusted or appealed to.

What do you call the person your spouse cheated with?

A woman who cheats on her husband is an adulteress. An adulterer commits adultery with his mistress, or lover, or paramour or girlfriend.

When should you give up on a cheating spouse?

When to Walk Away After Infidelity: 7 Signs It Might Be Time To Your Partner Doesnt Apologize. Your Spouse Doesnt Want to Get Counseling. Your Partner Doesnt Show Desire to Put in the Work. They are Still in Touch with the Person They Cheated on You With. Your Partner Doesnt Seem Committed to the Relationship.More items •Oct 6, 2020

What questions should you ask a cheating spouse?

10 Questions To Ask Your Unfaithful SpouseHow did you allow yourself to cheat?Did you feel guilty?Have you entertained thoughts about cheating before?Did you fall in love?Did you think about me?How long were you together?Did you ever talk about me?Do you still have feelings for that person?More items •Aug 26, 2021