AFRICAN COURTSHIP CUSTOMS To show his interest in a potential life partner, an African man brings gifts of gold, jewelry, bead necklaces, or clothing to his intended bride. His courtship might also include gifts of beer, palm wine, or even livestock, for the whole family to enjoy.

Why do Africans have two weddings?

Marriage in African traditions is a union between two families, not just two individuals. Thats why an engagement ceremony, which is often also a dowry (bride price) payment ceremony, is very important. Those ceremonies bring together the whole family, and allow each side to get to know each other.