The 10-date rule merely states that men are most likely to seek relationships with women theyve dated at least 10 times. These are real dates, not hangouts or coffee meet-ups. They are dates in which you go and do something together in public. Men want connection, true connection, as much as women do.

What is the ten date rule?

The 10th Date Rule proposes that men dont see the women theyre dating as potential girlfriends or wives until theyve spent quality time with them 10 times. So, dont “catch feelings” until the 10th date.