Narcissists sexual preferences are often very specific. In bed, the narcissist may have very explicit ideas about what their partner should do or even say. They want the narrative to play out in a certain way, and they dont have patience for changes to the script. This has to do with their lack of empathy.

What turns a narcissist on in bed?

A partner with sexual narcissism may: believe they deserve sex and have a right to demand it whenever they want, even if youre working, sleeping, or occupied with something else. expect sex in return for gifts or favors. feel perfectly willing to trick, deceive, or manipulate you into having sex.