How do I deal with my autistic wife?

Here are a few other tips for coping with having a spouse on the autism spectrum:Communicate your needs directly. When you do communicate, try not to show much emotion. Understand that your other half is more likely than most to become obsessive about a hobby.More items

How can I be a good partner with autism?

It is helpful to your partner if your communication is clear, calm and predictable. The person with ASD will usually want to meet their partners needs once s/he understands how to meet those needs. Explicitly communicating your social, emotional, mental, physical, including sexual needs, is important.