There is no standard protocol when it comes to dating in the workplace. If an HR Manager is dating another employee within the same company he or she should disclose the relationship.
Do you have to tell HR If you are dating someone?
Outside of a formal declaration to abide by the rules of HR, youre not required to disclose the status of your relationship (your new apartment, your new bling, your new baby) with anyone. If you think it might adversely affect your situation, be tight-lipped.
Is my boss secretly in love with me?
Here are some signs that your boss is interested in you: They arrange a strange number of private meetings or late night meetings with you. They give you flexible hours, special hours or other perks. They give you better projects more mentoring time or projects where you will be working more closely with them.