Take your time. Dont be in a hurry to start dating once you have lost your spouse. You have spent many years with this person, and whether your relationship was happy or not, you should fully grieve before moving on. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to grieve, and there is no exact time when grieving ends.

What is the first thing you do after your spouse dies?

To Do Immediately After Someone DiesGet a legal pronouncement of death. Tell friends and family. Find out about existing funeral and burial plans. Make funeral, burial or cremation arrangements. Secure the property. Provide care for pets. Forward mail. Notify your family members employer.More items •Jun 11, 2020

How long should a man wait to remarry after his wife died?

I will advise a widow or widower to wait for about three to five years before they remarry to prevent people from suspecting them of having something to do with the death of their lover.