So, were making a fairly radical design change thats now available to everyone: first messages appear on the profile of the sender and only on the profile of the sender. Yes, you deserve an explanation, and unlike that guy who ghosted after three seemingly pleasant dates, well give you one.

What to say when you match on OkCupid?

20 Best OkCupid OpenersWould You Rather? Asking a question is one of the best OkCupid opener because it is one of the few OkCupid messages that get responses. Be Specific. Be Real. Defer To Their Wisdom. Ask About Their Weekend. Be Open-Minded. Be Funny! Start With a Joke.More items •4 Aug 2020