When a man is confused about his feelings, his behavior might be erratic. He might make you feel desired and give you all his attention during the hot phase. Then he may pull away just like that and act cold when he feels like hes catching feelings for you.
What it means when a guy says he is confused?
It may mean exactly what he has said -- thats hes confused and needs time to think. True, he may be struggling with whether you are a good match, but he may be struggling with something entirely different, even unrelated. His friends may be pressuring him to be single or his mother to get married.
Why a man is confused?
And sometimes, the reason why a man is acting confused is the fact that he has no idea what he really wants. And even if you were to have a conversation with such a man and ask him what the hell he wants from you, he still wouldnt be able to answer you because he himself has no idea what he wants.